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Guter Rat Du fall in Liebe with someone from fanpop, and she/he is so far away and Du can't stop thinking of her/him? what to do?

192 fans picked:
be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him
   35%
Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone...
Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..
   21%
(added by sophieDP)
try to forget!!! (How???)
   14%
i dont fall in Liebe online!!!! (sry)
i dont fall in Liebe online!!!! (sry)
   11%
(added by the_nerd)
Keep loving them forever and never stop hoping that Du will someday meet them!
   6%
(added by FrenchHorn)
damn, fall into depression, i'm miserable
   5%
send 'em a message ;) but actually i'd never tell... dream about them then.
   3%
(added by poisonfang)
I wouldn&# 39; t fall in Liebe over the internet
I wouldn't fall in Liebe over the internet
   2%
(added by MissKnowItAll)
I DO NOT HAVE A CHRUSH OR...
I DO NOT HAVE A CHRUSH oder ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
   1%
(added by poddo)
sorry, for me, falling in Liebe on Fanpop was...
sorry, for me, falling in Liebe on Fanpop was painful ='(
   1%
(added by Nayeli2353)
pretend she loves and stuff.. YAY! :(
   1%
dammit!!!they're coming to take me away!!haha!they're coming to take me away!!hah
   1%
(added by teamsalvatore98)
I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME WAY!!!! JUST ON MULTIPLY WEBSITES!!
   1%
(added by 1JUSTIN-BIEBER)
 BlackestHole posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr
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it's hard isn't it?? :(
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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leuron picked try to forget!!! (How???):
Hope is the Last to Die :)
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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amazondebs picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
may sound a little chessy but if is meant to be one of you will make that meeting possible!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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probably some other important things to consider are...

Have you ever met the person in real life?
If you have met, how did the two of you get along?
Have you attempted to express your feelings to that person?
If you have expressed your feelings, how did they respond?
If you haven't, perhaps you should try to SLOWLY convey that...
Don't dump it all at once if they are clueless, or chances are you are going to scare that person away, and feel very rejected.

If it's a mutual thing, then I'm sure that leuron and amazondebs are right. If the two of you feel strongly enough, and want it badly enough, then I'm sure that between the two of you, you'll find a way to make it happen.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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dazl picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
Eden, why haven't you come for me yet!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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TweenaCat picked try to forget!!! (How???):
Maybe my view is overly naive, since it's never happened to me personally, but I do know it's hard to keep up a close friendship long-distance, so I can't imagine a relationship like that would be very easy.

Hope's a good thing, yes, but false hope isn't. Even if you did meet up with them, how often would you be able to see them again after that? I know it would be very hard, but, as cliched and unhelpful as it is, there are other fish in the sea. Keep up the friendship, but allow yourself to be open minded about meeting other people.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
last edited Vor mehr als einem Jahr
 
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don't know the person in real life
never said what i feel directly
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Emagmoon picked try to forget!!! (How???):
just do it, it's ridiculous
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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johnminh picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
I second dazl's opinion! LOL! :p
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Cinders said:
I think Eden is a polygamist.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Hmm...Okay...*scratches head*...I will come for you, be...patient?...:S

Am I like the something in shining armor?...Do you guys want to carpool? :P LOL! j/k Luv!

Ahahahaha, Cinders...I think you're right!...Ugh Eden, who the hell she thinks she is? :P
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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leuron picked try to forget!!! (How???):
Damn... :/ O.o
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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sardines picked pretend she loves and stuff.. YAY! :(:
I always imagine people being in love with me, I think I'm crazy
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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leuron picked try to forget!!! (How???):
how is the question, and I guess the answer still illudes me, cause I'm really deeply in love... :/
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Jillywinkles picked try to forget!!! (How???):
I would never fall in love with someone I have never met, but I am sort of trying to get over someone that I know, and the best way that I have found is to just go on with life as best you can, meet new people, find other things to think about, and wait for time to do its trick.
The hardest thing is knowing you have to forget him, but being unable to get rid of that last vestige of hope that something might change.

But this is all advice for love that is not reciprocated. If it is reciprocated, then by all means find a way to meet!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
last edited Vor mehr als einem Jahr
 
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Wonder how the hell Du fel in...
adavila picked Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..:
love online??

Now I´ve heard everything
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Wonder how the hell Du fel in...
adavila picked Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..:
BlackestHole you should tell everyone here who that person is?
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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I'm wondering if it's actually happened to someone.
Has it??
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
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ToastedRabbits picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
One day, maybe. ;3
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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IsabellaAzuria picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
it happened to me. and i love him. though i hated internet relationships i fell for him.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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aholic picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
I still think it's weird to fall in love with someone you've never met.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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gossipgirlxoxo picked try to forget!!! (How???):
TRY GOING FOR SOME NEW OPTIONS AND IF YOU CAN'T, IF ITS MENT TO B IT'S MENT TO B
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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poisonfang picked send 'em a message ;) but actually i'd never tell... dream about them then.:
that, OR damnit, i'm miserable and depressed. plus... HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW!?!?
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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hellgirl223 picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
try to be positive:)
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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deathnote picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
this question was a good one! it somehow reminded me of......never mind
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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lindsay456 picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
there was somone he hates me but he defended himself when i sayed i hated him but i like those kind of boys i love fell for him and i will be posetive even if he dosent talk to me any more
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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emo_grl_4eva picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
I'd always be to date somebody online. even though they're on the other side of the world. I'd dream of the day we'd meet first time. I'm just a romantic daydreamer.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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nerysflynn picked damn, fall into depression, i'm miserable:
i'm a romantic at heart... and rather sensitive really
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Wonder how the hell Du fel in...
Buggie111 picked Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..:
How will I fall in love with somebody from Fanpop? The chat stoped working for me and I don't believe people always say the truth online.

So... I can't really believe in the love!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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MIKEYWAY445 picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
I might meet them... in my dreams. *sigh*
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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MISSLOVATOSTAR1 picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
Maybe someday ..
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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i dont fall in Liebe online!- !!!...
Katara690 picked i dont fall in Liebe online!!!! (sry):
lol ^^^^^^^
but i dont fall in luv with anybody
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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sorry, for me, falling in love...
Nayeli2353 picked sorry, for me, falling in Liebe on Fanpop was painful ='(:
although you can ignore me, but never fall in love in the internet it was painful for me =(
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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teamsalvatore98 picked dammit!!!they're coming to take me away!!haha!they're coming to take me away!!hah:
dammit!!THEY'RE COMING TO TAKE ME AWAY!!HAHA!THEY'RE COMING TO TAKE ME AWAY!!HAAHA!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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teamsalvatore98 picked dammit!!!they're coming to take me away!!haha!they're coming to take me away!!hah:
jking.im not crazy.and i am really sensitive about love.it can really hurt..
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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I wouldn&# 39; t fall in Liebe over...
MissKnowItAll picked I wouldn't fall in Liebe over the internet:
I think you can have a crush over the internet, but I think to fall in love you need to see them face to face, because people are really different on the internet.

Maybe you'd have a crush, then meet them, and then you would do the falling in love part.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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LizaIsARunner picked try to forget!!! (How???):
I agree with MissKnowAtAll.:)
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Wonder how the hell Du fel in...
heartmerlin2 picked Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..:
You can never truly fall in love with someone you don't know.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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animelove30 picked Keep loving them forever and never stop hoping that Du will someday meet them!:
Same thing happened to me.. but that was awhile ago and I can't stop loving that person. I know I can't have this person.. but I keep it in my heart that one day.. I might get to see this person and just hold them tight. Now you see.. the person I fell in love with lived in another country and already had a girlfriend so it was impossible for even an online relationship. We just kept it simple and stayed friends.. Then one day I got the guts to tell him that I love him.. and he said it back.. and told me the truth and that he felt a connection between us too. :) I was soo happy. But since he was already in a relationship and at the time.. I had myself A boyfriend.. we decided it would be best to just keep it on a friends level. But I still long to meet him some day. Just to touch his hand, hold him tight, and never let go. :)
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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SkyBendingVee picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
May I just ask (with no prejudice), how could you fall in love with someone you've never met face to face? Actually, now that I think of it, that's kind of romantic... whatever. Keep hoping!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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i dont fall in Liebe online!- !!!...
BlindBandit92 picked i dont fall in Liebe online!!!! (sry):
I don't fall in love over the internet.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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sorry, for me, falling in love...
GoldnSnitch_96 picked sorry, for me, falling in Liebe on Fanpop was painful ='(:
I once thought I fell in love with someone. But I then later on realised it was a confused feeling of delusion and admiration...but there was always something special about that girl....I wish I could meet her T_T
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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laura071197 picked try to forget!!! (How???):
its been happening to me something alike. ive seen HIM face to face, ive seen him before (not too much) but when i saw him this time it was a crush at first sight, (it sounds cheese i know im not like that but waw)the point is that theres no way we could see or contact each other so obviously im trying to forget about him but believe me its haaarrrdddd. i belive theres no other way
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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i dont fall in Liebe online!- !!!...
vampiressJazz picked i dont fall in Liebe online!!!! (sry):
How can you live someone on the net, if you do you have serious issues with love. Most if the time they are not the sexy 16 yr old but but a creepy 60 year old man!
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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Wonder how the hell Du fel in...
Coolchill picked Wonder how the hell Du fel in Liebe with someone u've never met..:
I wouldnt really think much, but i WOULD REALLY REALLY wish i'll meet him one day...
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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AlOoOosh picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
but also I have to know if he loves me or I will forget this love
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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izzyblackberry picked Keep loving them forever and never stop hoping that Du will someday meet them!:
never give up hope becuse ther is always hope in true love
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.
 
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xDarkGirl23 picked be hopeful, i might one Tag meet her/him:
True story: Met my Markypoo off of this site in person. He actually left me for a while before it happened, because he thought it wasn't going to happen.
But it did, and now we're happy :D

I think you just either have to wait it out, or define whether or not your feelings are real.
posted Vor mehr als einem Jahr.